I dreamt of you 2 times 2 weeks ago.. so grateful for it..
but why did the dreams stop?!?!?
seeing you in my dreams is so wonderful.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Honesty
REGRETS OF THE DYINGby Teo Sheng Ee on Wednesday, 22 September 2010 at 18:42
By Bronnie Ware Platinum Quality Author
For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.
People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learned never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.
When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people have had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.
It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.
By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.
We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.
When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.
Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness
By Bronnie Ware Platinum Quality Author
For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.
People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learned never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.
When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people have had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.
It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.
By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.
We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.
When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.
Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness
Monday, September 13, 2010
dreamt of you for 2 nites... =)
and receive a msg from you.. no doubt you didn't reply my msg.. but i still feel 100% bless.. =)
Hope you'll still come into my dreams tonite.
Hope you'll still come into my dreams tonite.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
做人处事赢在分寸
爱一个人，要体贴，也要体谅；要道歉，也要道谢；是接受，而不是忍受；是宽容，而不是纵容；是支持，而不是支配；是彼此交流；而不是凡事交代；可以浪漫，但不是浪费；可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。~ 做人处事赢在分寸，第十四章，做情人的分寸
Monday, July 05, 2010
Me.. the gemini
双子座
双子孤傲是因为他们自信，双子善变是因为世界在改变，双子没有耐性是因为他们发现了不值得，双子冷漠是因为他们害怕被伤害，双子花心是因为他们没有找到真爱，双子不在乎是因为你没有看到他们的敏感。
笑
双子们的笑永远都是最单纯的，无论什么时候你都会看到一直都在笑的双子，因为他们一直都只想把自己的快乐带给别人，却只把悲伤留给自己，你没有看到过双子的眼泪是因为他从来不会在被人面前哭，当你看到双子的眼泪的时候，那么说明你是真的把他们的真心夺走了，因为双子真的很需要一份值得的依靠，他会每时每刻的在乎你的一切，他们很敏感的，会跟着你的快乐而快乐，跟着你的忧愁而忧愁，跟着你的改变而改变，但在你面前他们从来都是快乐的。
爱
一提到双子的爱，一般人肯定都会说：双子座的人最花心。可是是真的是这样吗？双子和异性的关系好只是因为他们非同一般的亲和力，而双子的真心只有一个，当他找到的时候，他就会付出自己的一切让对方得到幸福，他要的不是他自己能和对方在一起，他要的是对方的幸福，和双子在一起会感到很随和，因为他会包容你的一切，你的一切优点和缺点，和双子在一起绝对不会觉得被锁住，你只要做自己就好，因为双子喜欢的就是真实的你，做作的人根本不会得到双子的心。
坚强
有人说双子很坚强，什么都不在乎，是阿，表面的双子确实很坚强，但是内心他们比任何人都脆弱，也许这也是风向>> >>> > 星座的人的一个特性，决不会让别人看到自己脆弱的一面，因为他们都是一个有一双别人看不见翅膀的天使，天生就会给别人带来快乐，双子们的眼泪是透明的，别人看不见，可是自己却能看得很清楚这样的透明的泪给自己开来双倍的痛。
人际
双子们的人缘很好，因为他们懂得你什么时候需要什么样的帮助，而且双子们会根据不同的人有不同的交往方式，双子很容易相信别人，所以经常会被欺骗，可是在欺骗后他们仍然会轻轻的笑笑然后说：没关系的，他骗我肯定会有原因。双子从来不会知道后悔是什么，因为他们时时刻刻都在为别人想，总会设身处地，可是这样别人根本就不知道，就是因为他帮助别人太多了，所以在他需要帮助的时候却总是孤立无援，然后继续的笑着，笑着找到一个角落，留下那颗透明的泪。
朋友
当双子的朋友真的很幸福哦！因为当你遇到什么困难时，他会比你更着急，甚至会失去自己宝贵的东西也会帮助你，他会带给你快乐帮你分担忧愁，可是你却看不到他的孤独和无助，当双子看到你不高兴的时候，无论这时他有多么的郁闷，他也会立刻露出最真实的笑容来帮助你。>> >
执着
说双子善变，那只是片面之词，对于双子真正喜欢的东西，它是会执着的让人害怕的，就是因为内心太像小孩子太单纯，所以对于他们真正喜欢的东西，他们是根本就不知道放弃是什么的，除非是他们自己发现这个东西不值得，否则他们是绝对不会放弃的，只要是他们肯定的，他们就会有超出别人很多的坚持和执著。
自尊
双子的自尊很重要，对于他们最重要的恐怕就是这个了，他们懂得原谅，无数次的去试着原谅，就算别人让自己千疮百孔，他们也会无条件的有自己的宽容，有自己的原则和原谅，就是因为他们的自尊，他们的自尊心让他们相信这个世界永远都是最美的，因为他们的自尊不允许自己放弃这个世界。
分享
在双子的世界里没有分享，只有是你的或者是我的，他们不会把一样东西去和别人分享，因为他们认为这样对那样东西是不公平的，因为他在乎每一个人每一样东西的感觉，只要他认为这件东西是自己可以割舍的，他绝对会无条件的退出，去成全别人，对于欺骗过他们的恋人，他会选择原谅，但绝对不会再和他们在一起，因为他懂得这样不值得.
双子座的人真的很可爱，真的很需要人的保护和安慰，他们不会放弃世界，却会放弃自己，去成全别人，他们懂得原谅和理解，无论这一秒他有多讨厌一个人，下一秒看到那个人脆弱的一面，他还是会去无条件地帮助他，真的很傻吧？但是傻的好可爱，好让人心疼，痛过以后，他们依然会笑着面对以后未知的路，继续原谅，继续理解，继续快乐，继续的傻着，改变双子真的很难吧？因为他们的心都是金刚石作的，但不是说他们无情，他们的执着只是针对自己的，那么孤傲的一个人，也只是针对自己，因为他们不知道怎么表达自己的内心，所以他们选择了沉默。
双子孤傲是因为他们自信，双子善变是因为世界在改变，双子没有耐性是因为他们发现了不值得，双子冷漠是因为他们害怕被伤害，双子花心是因为他们没有找到真爱，双子不在乎是因为你没有看到他们的敏感。
笑
双子们的笑永远都是最单纯的，无论什么时候你都会看到一直都在笑的双子，因为他们一直都只想把自己的快乐带给别人，却只把悲伤留给自己，你没有看到过双子的眼泪是因为他从来不会在被人面前哭，当你看到双子的眼泪的时候，那么说明你是真的把他们的真心夺走了，因为双子真的很需要一份值得的依靠，他会每时每刻的在乎你的一切，他们很敏感的，会跟着你的快乐而快乐，跟着你的忧愁而忧愁，跟着你的改变而改变，但在你面前他们从来都是快乐的。
爱
一提到双子的爱，一般人肯定都会说：双子座的人最花心。可是是真的是这样吗？双子和异性的关系好只是因为他们非同一般的亲和力，而双子的真心只有一个，当他找到的时候，他就会付出自己的一切让对方得到幸福，他要的不是他自己能和对方在一起，他要的是对方的幸福，和双子在一起会感到很随和，因为他会包容你的一切，你的一切优点和缺点，和双子在一起绝对不会觉得被锁住，你只要做自己就好，因为双子喜欢的就是真实的你，做作的人根本不会得到双子的心。
坚强
有人说双子很坚强，什么都不在乎，是阿，表面的双子确实很坚强，但是内心他们比任何人都脆弱，也许这也是风向>> >>> > 星座的人的一个特性，决不会让别人看到自己脆弱的一面，因为他们都是一个有一双别人看不见翅膀的天使，天生就会给别人带来快乐，双子们的眼泪是透明的，别人看不见，可是自己却能看得很清楚这样的透明的泪给自己开来双倍的痛。
人际
双子们的人缘很好，因为他们懂得你什么时候需要什么样的帮助，而且双子们会根据不同的人有不同的交往方式，双子很容易相信别人，所以经常会被欺骗，可是在欺骗后他们仍然会轻轻的笑笑然后说：没关系的，他骗我肯定会有原因。双子从来不会知道后悔是什么，因为他们时时刻刻都在为别人想，总会设身处地，可是这样别人根本就不知道，就是因为他帮助别人太多了，所以在他需要帮助的时候却总是孤立无援，然后继续的笑着，笑着找到一个角落，留下那颗透明的泪。
朋友
当双子的朋友真的很幸福哦！因为当你遇到什么困难时，他会比你更着急，甚至会失去自己宝贵的东西也会帮助你，他会带给你快乐帮你分担忧愁，可是你却看不到他的孤独和无助，当双子看到你不高兴的时候，无论这时他有多么的郁闷，他也会立刻露出最真实的笑容来帮助你。>> >
执着
说双子善变，那只是片面之词，对于双子真正喜欢的东西，它是会执着的让人害怕的，就是因为内心太像小孩子太单纯，所以对于他们真正喜欢的东西，他们是根本就不知道放弃是什么的，除非是他们自己发现这个东西不值得，否则他们是绝对不会放弃的，只要是他们肯定的，他们就会有超出别人很多的坚持和执著。
自尊
双子的自尊很重要，对于他们最重要的恐怕就是这个了，他们懂得原谅，无数次的去试着原谅，就算别人让自己千疮百孔，他们也会无条件的有自己的宽容，有自己的原则和原谅，就是因为他们的自尊，他们的自尊心让他们相信这个世界永远都是最美的，因为他们的自尊不允许自己放弃这个世界。
分享
在双子的世界里没有分享，只有是你的或者是我的，他们不会把一样东西去和别人分享，因为他们认为这样对那样东西是不公平的，因为他在乎每一个人每一样东西的感觉，只要他认为这件东西是自己可以割舍的，他绝对会无条件的退出，去成全别人，对于欺骗过他们的恋人，他会选择原谅，但绝对不会再和他们在一起，因为他懂得这样不值得.
双子座的人真的很可爱，真的很需要人的保护和安慰，他们不会放弃世界，却会放弃自己，去成全别人，他们懂得原谅和理解，无论这一秒他有多讨厌一个人，下一秒看到那个人脆弱的一面，他还是会去无条件地帮助他，真的很傻吧？但是傻的好可爱，好让人心疼，痛过以后，他们依然会笑着面对以后未知的路，继续原谅，继续理解，继续快乐，继续的傻着，改变双子真的很难吧？因为他们的心都是金刚石作的，但不是说他们无情，他们的执着只是针对自己的，那么孤傲的一个人，也只是针对自己，因为他们不知道怎么表达自己的内心，所以他们选择了沉默。
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Friday, June 11, 2010
Tuesday, June 08, 2010
i guess this says it all...
告诉你 瞒着你 只不过是个决定
放弃你 忘记你 只怕我无法前进
不知道为什么会如此莫名紧张你
我越了解你，越靠近你，越犹豫
明知道我爱你 却不敢告诉你
我害怕失去你 宁愿沉默不语
该如何整理 幸福在手里
我恨自己 无能为力
明知道我爱你 却不敢靠近你
我假装不在意 反而痛了自己
多痛都可以 不能没有你
只想永远永远爱你
你知不知道我也没关系
（真的没关系）
告诉你 瞒着你 只不过是个决定
但为何 到如今 我依然无法前进
不知道为什么会如此莫名紧张你
我越了解你 越靠近你 越犹豫
明知道我爱你 却不敢告诉你
我害怕失去你 宁愿沉默不语
该如何整理 幸福在手里
我恨自己 无能为力
明知道我爱你 却不敢靠近你
我假装不在意 反而痛了自己
多痛都可以 不能没有你
只想永远永远爱你
你知不知道我也没关系
明知道我爱你
假装不在意
多痛都可以 不能没有你
只想永远永远爱你
你知不知道真的没关系
放弃你 忘记你 只怕我无法前进
不知道为什么会如此莫名紧张你
我越了解你，越靠近你，越犹豫
明知道我爱你 却不敢告诉你
我害怕失去你 宁愿沉默不语
该如何整理 幸福在手里
我恨自己 无能为力
明知道我爱你 却不敢靠近你
我假装不在意 反而痛了自己
多痛都可以 不能没有你
只想永远永远爱你
你知不知道我也没关系
（真的没关系）
告诉你 瞒着你 只不过是个决定
但为何 到如今 我依然无法前进
不知道为什么会如此莫名紧张你
我越了解你 越靠近你 越犹豫
明知道我爱你 却不敢告诉你
我害怕失去你 宁愿沉默不语
该如何整理 幸福在手里
我恨自己 无能为力
明知道我爱你 却不敢靠近你
我假装不在意 反而痛了自己
多痛都可以 不能没有你
只想永远永远爱你
你知不知道我也没关系
明知道我爱你
假装不在意
多痛都可以 不能没有你
只想永远永远爱你
你知不知道真的没关系
Saturday, May 01, 2010
一切很美只因有你
23:09Aaron
SINDY
23:12Me
yoh
23:14Aaron
HEY!
you go online
very quickly
23:14Me
Yea!
msn?
23:14Aaron
I don't think the bags have the coloe
huh?
No no...
COACH
23:14Me
orh
okies
23:15Aaron
23:14Me
orh
okies
23:15Aaron
i think the color is sold out
23:15Me
yup
i saw it.. the wristlet rite?
23:15Aaron
Then HOW??
DIE!!!
Both the new madison and the other one
23:15Me
there's a purple one...
also quite pretty
23:16Aaron
whatever you want
you wanna order now?
then I can pick up over the weekend
23:17Me
okies.. gam sia..
23:17Aaron
okie, at least this is (sorta) settled then
send me the e-mail
23:17Me
thanks thanks..
23:17Aaron
or put a note that I'm picking up
they may not give it to me willingly
Me
it's not working
i typed 10027
23:18Aaron
DIE
23:18Me
no response leh
23:18Aaron
what's the link?
DIE
gimme the link
I try to do on my end
23:19Me
i dun have a link.. it's the popup window
23:19Aaron
no no, the product
23:19Me
wait har..
i try ordering online instead
wau liao.. that button also no response
23:20Aaron
ok
23:20Me
MADISON LARGE WRISTLET
$98.00
style:43225
it's this
in cornflower
23:20Aaron
you mean apricot?
oh, cornflower
Me
nope
cornflower
23:21Aaron
like, purple?
23:21Me
yup
it's purple color
23:21Aaron
okie, got it
which one else?
what is the other one?
23:21Me
huh.. how come urs work?
gimme a min
running thru the bags now
23:22Aaron
okie
lemme know the serial number
23:25Me
sorry har.. one more min
23:26Aaron
take your time
I'm online
23:32Aaron
Ah Sindy..
still choosing ah?
23:33Me
yah lor
u need ty to leave alr?
23:34Aaron
nope.
Ironing clothes now..
23:34Me
wau.. zai nan ah?
23:34Aaron
no choice
next few weeks very buys
busy
have to TRAVEL!
23:34Me
where r u going?
23:35Aaron
puerto rico
then vegas with parents
23:35Me
wau!
shiok
23:36Aaron
of course
quick search la!
hahahhaha
23:36Me
orh..
how's ur interview
can't make up my mind which to take.. that's why abit slow
psps
23:36Aaron
whcih one?
ahhahaha
waiting for them to call me back lor
23:37Me
good chance?
23:38Aaron
dunno
very hard to say
i think 40(good)-60 (bad
23:43Me
KRISTIN SIGNATURE OTTOMAN TOP HANDLE POUCH
$148.00
style:43741
paiseh..
here it is..
had abit of struggle..
aiyah.. i'm sure you can get it one
23:44Aaron
which color?
23:44Me
onli one colour
the khaki one
they go by different style number for diff color
23:45Aaron
okie, 1 color
crap, they pick up at diff places
23:45Me
huh..
u mean the store that u r going doesn't have both in stocks ah?
23:48Aaron
gimme a sec
23:48Me
okies
23:49Aaron
ah!
Shipping is free!
i'll ask thenm to ship
23:50Aaron
okie
23:50Me
goodies!
u wan me to pay by my credit card?
23:51Aaron
total is 246, you're ok?
I think have to pay using my US credit card
23:52Me
usd rite?
okies.. np
23:52Aaron
i'll let you know how much
23:52Me
okies okies
i roughly estimate 1.4 exchange rate..
u lemme know how much when u're back
keke
23:53Aaron
okie
with tax
is 267.83
23:54Me
okies
23:54Aaron
times 1.4 roughly S$375
is ok ah
23:54Me
add the wrislet 80 rite?
23:54Aaron
haven't add yet la
23:54Me
i know..
23:54Aaron
that one, will let you know sgd amount
okie, submit order now..
23:54Me
i mean i have to add the additional wristlet
okie okies.. gam sia gam sia
when will u be coming back?
23:56Aaron
done!
23:56Me
yea!
23:56Aaron
yippee!
i'll be back ard 27 may
23:57Me
ok.. wau.. less than a mth..
time flies leh
1.5 yrs gone le
23:57Aaron
SIGH
please, don't say that
23:58Me
y?
23:58Aaron
now have to CHEONG!
23:58Me
cheong?
23:58Aaron
find a job I really like!
23:58Me
u look for M&A rite
23:58Aaron
I love NY
yeah
23:58Me
sure can find..
23:58Aaron
but maybe..
23:58Me
stay there lor..
23:58Aaron
i'll be better off getting a strategy role
that cannot earn too much money
23:59Me
u eventually wana become a CEO one rite?
23:59Aaron
I tried liao
can't find anything here
23:59Me
huh? u haven start yet leh
how come?
veri fiunnie leh.. i thot with ur MBA.. all companies will open their doors for u lor
23:59Aaron
have been trying to look for job for the past year lor
23:59Me
how abt ur peers?
Today
00:00Aaron
maybe ard 50%?
00:00Me
huh?
the other 50% leh?
i rem u said there's one from Mckinsey
all big shot companies leh
u can go back to GE mahz
00:01Aaron
we'll see
okie, I go back to ironing..
.talk to you later!
00:01Me
i'm going slp le lahz..
00:02Aaron
byeee..
00:02Me
ttya.. enjoy ur trip.. cya soon! =)
00:04Aaron is offline.
SINDY
23:12Me
yoh
23:14Aaron
HEY!
you go online
very quickly
23:14Me
Yea!
msn?
23:14Aaron
I don't think the bags have the coloe
huh?
No no...
COACH
23:14Me
orh
okies
23:15Aaron
23:14Me
orh
okies
23:15Aaron
i think the color is sold out
23:15Me
yup
i saw it.. the wristlet rite?
23:15Aaron
Then HOW??
DIE!!!
Both the new madison and the other one
23:15Me
there's a purple one...
also quite pretty
23:16Aaron
whatever you want
you wanna order now?
then I can pick up over the weekend
23:17Me
okies.. gam sia..
23:17Aaron
okie, at least this is (sorta) settled then
send me the e-mail
23:17Me
thanks thanks..
23:17Aaron
or put a note that I'm picking up
they may not give it to me willingly
Me
it's not working
i typed 10027
23:18Aaron
DIE
23:18Me
no response leh
23:18Aaron
what's the link?
DIE
gimme the link
I try to do on my end
23:19Me
i dun have a link.. it's the popup window
23:19Aaron
no no, the product
23:19Me
wait har..
i try ordering online instead
wau liao.. that button also no response
23:20Aaron
ok
23:20Me
MADISON LARGE WRISTLET
$98.00
style:43225
it's this
in cornflower
23:20Aaron
you mean apricot?
oh, cornflower
Me
nope
cornflower
23:21Aaron
like, purple?
23:21Me
yup
it's purple color
23:21Aaron
okie, got it
which one else?
what is the other one?
23:21Me
huh.. how come urs work?
gimme a min
running thru the bags now
23:22Aaron
okie
lemme know the serial number
23:25Me
sorry har.. one more min
23:26Aaron
take your time
I'm online
23:32Aaron
Ah Sindy..
still choosing ah?
23:33Me
yah lor
u need ty to leave alr?
23:34Aaron
nope.
Ironing clothes now..
23:34Me
wau.. zai nan ah?
23:34Aaron
no choice
next few weeks very buys
busy
have to TRAVEL!
23:34Me
where r u going?
23:35Aaron
puerto rico
then vegas with parents
23:35Me
wau!
shiok
23:36Aaron
of course
quick search la!
hahahhaha
23:36Me
orh..
how's ur interview
can't make up my mind which to take.. that's why abit slow
psps
23:36Aaron
whcih one?
ahhahaha
waiting for them to call me back lor
23:37Me
good chance?
23:38Aaron
dunno
very hard to say
i think 40(good)-60 (bad
23:43Me
KRISTIN SIGNATURE OTTOMAN TOP HANDLE POUCH
$148.00
style:43741
paiseh..
here it is..
had abit of struggle..
aiyah.. i'm sure you can get it one
23:44Aaron
which color?
23:44Me
onli one colour
the khaki one
they go by different style number for diff color
23:45Aaron
okie, 1 color
crap, they pick up at diff places
23:45Me
huh..
u mean the store that u r going doesn't have both in stocks ah?
23:48Aaron
gimme a sec
23:48Me
okies
23:49Aaron
ah!
Shipping is free!
i'll ask thenm to ship
23:50Aaron
okie
23:50Me
goodies!
u wan me to pay by my credit card?
23:51Aaron
total is 246, you're ok?
I think have to pay using my US credit card
23:52Me
usd rite?
okies.. np
23:52Aaron
i'll let you know how much
23:52Me
okies okies
i roughly estimate 1.4 exchange rate..
u lemme know how much when u're back
keke
23:53Aaron
okie
with tax
is 267.83
23:54Me
okies
23:54Aaron
times 1.4 roughly S$375
is ok ah
23:54Me
add the wrislet 80 rite?
23:54Aaron
haven't add yet la
23:54Me
i know..
23:54Aaron
that one, will let you know sgd amount
okie, submit order now..
23:54Me
i mean i have to add the additional wristlet
okie okies.. gam sia gam sia
when will u be coming back?
23:56Aaron
done!
23:56Me
yea!
23:56Aaron
yippee!
i'll be back ard 27 may
23:57Me
ok.. wau.. less than a mth..
time flies leh
1.5 yrs gone le
23:57Aaron
SIGH
please, don't say that
23:58Me
y?
23:58Aaron
now have to CHEONG!
23:58Me
cheong?
23:58Aaron
find a job I really like!
23:58Me
u look for M&A rite
23:58Aaron
I love NY
yeah
23:58Me
sure can find..
23:58Aaron
but maybe..
23:58Me
stay there lor..
23:58Aaron
i'll be better off getting a strategy role
that cannot earn too much money
23:59Me
u eventually wana become a CEO one rite?
23:59Aaron
I tried liao
can't find anything here
23:59Me
huh? u haven start yet leh
how come?
veri fiunnie leh.. i thot with ur MBA.. all companies will open their doors for u lor
23:59Aaron
have been trying to look for job for the past year lor
23:59Me
how abt ur peers?
Today
00:00Aaron
maybe ard 50%?
00:00Me
huh?
the other 50% leh?
i rem u said there's one from Mckinsey
all big shot companies leh
u can go back to GE mahz
00:01Aaron
we'll see
okie, I go back to ironing..
.talk to you later!
00:01Me
i'm going slp le lahz..
00:02Aaron
byeee..
00:02Me
ttya.. enjoy ur trip.. cya soon! =)
00:04Aaron is offline.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
How are you today? =)
你知道吗，你天天都在我脑海里打转。。 好想你。。
Hope you enjoyed the musical today.. hope you'll have a happy day today.. i miss u.. =)
Hope you enjoyed the musical today.. hope you'll have a happy day today.. i miss u.. =)
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
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Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Tuesday, March 09, 2010
人生并未售来回票，失去的便永远不再
把钱省下来，等待退休后再去享受结果退休后，因为年纪大，身体差，行动不方便，哪里也去不成。钱存下来等养老，结果孩子长大了，要出国留学，要创业做生意，要花钱娶老婆， 自己的退休金都被拗走了。 当自己有足够的能力善待自己时，就立刻去做，老年人有时候是无法做中年人或是青少年人可以做的事， 年纪和健康就是一大因素。小孩子从小就告诉他，养你到高中，大学以后就要自立更生，要留学，创业，娶老婆，自己想办法，自己要留多一点钱， 不要为了小孩子而活。 我们都老得太快却聪明得太迟，我的学长去年丧妻。 这突如其来的事故，实在叫人难以接受，但是死亡的到来不总是如此。学长说他太太最希望他能送鲜花给他，但是他觉得太浪费， 总推说等到下次再买， 结果却是在她死后，用鲜花布置她的灵堂。这不是太蠢愚了吗？！等到......、等到.....，似乎我们所有的生命，都用在等待。 「等到我大学毕业以后，我就会如何如何」我们对自己说「等到我买房子以后！」「等我最小的孩子结婚之后！」「等我把这笔生意谈成之后！」「等到我死了以后」人人都很愿意牺牲当下，去换取未知的等待；牺牲今生今世的辛苦钱，去购买后 世的安逸。 在台湾只要往有山的道路上走一走，就随处都可看到「农舍」变「精舍」，山坡地变灵塔，无非也是为了等到死后，能图个保障，不必再受苦。许多人认为必须等到某时或某事完成之后再采取行动。 明天我就开始运动明天我就会对他好一点 下星期我们就找时间出去走走 退休后，我们就要好好享受一下 然而，生活总是一直变动，环境总是不可预知， 在现实生活中，各种突发状况总是层出不穷。身为一个医生，我所见过的死人，比一般人要来得多。 这些人早上醒来时，原本预期过的是另一个平凡无奇的日子，没想到一个意料之外的事； 交通意外、脑溢血、心脏病发作等等。 剎那间生命的巨轮倾覆离轨，突然闯进一片黑暗之中。那么我们要如何面对生命呢？我们毋需等到生活完美无瑕， 也毋需等到一切都平稳，想做什么，现在就可以开始做起。一个人永远也无法预料未来，所以不要延缓想过的生活， 不要吝于表达心中的话， 因为生命只在一瞬间。 记住！给活人送一朵鲜花，强过给死人送贵重的花圈每个人的生命都有尽头，许多人经常在生命即将结束时，才发现自己还有很多事没有做，有许多话来不及说，这实在是人生最大的遗憾。别让自己徒留「为时已晚」的空余恨。逝者不可追，来者犹未卜，最珍贵、最需要实时掌握的「当下」，往往在这两者蹉跎间，转眼错失。 人生短暂飘忽，包得有一首小诗这样写：高天与原地，悠悠人生路；行行向何方，转眼即长暮。正是道尽了人生如寄，转眼即逝的惶恐。有许多事，在你还不懂得珍惜之前已成旧事；有许多人， 在你还来不及用心之前 已成旧人。 遗憾的事一再发生，但过后再追悔 早知道如何如何」是没有用的， 「那时候」已经过去，你追念的人也已走过了你 一句瑞典格言说：「我们老得太快，却聪明得太迟。」 不管你是否察觉，生命都一直在前进人生并未售来回票，失去的便永远不再将希望寄予「等到方便的时间才享受」我们不知失去了多少可能的幸福不要再等待有一天你「可以松口气」，或是「麻烦都过去了」。生命中大部分的美好事物都是短暂易逝的， 享受它们、品尝它们， 善待你周围的每一个 人， 别把时间浪费在等待所有难题的「完满结局」上。 找回迷失的生命死亡 也许是免费的 ─ 但是，却要付出生命的代价。劝大家一句话：把握当下，莫等待。
Wednesday, March 03, 2010
好想拍张全家福。。
刚看了facebook。。 看到了一个colleague post 的全家福。。 好羡慕她。。 可以introduce her family members to the world..
Tuesday, March 02, 2010
还是很想你。。
自从facebook allows one to track who's viewing them.. 我就不什么敢天天click你的link了。。 but still miss you alot.. it should be 7am+ at where u are now.. hope you're gonna enjoy this beautiful tuesday.. May God lok after you, may this be a good day for you.. missing you..
haha.. on a side note.. just seeing you 3 times when you were back made me pinn for you so much.. eventhou it's already awhile since you went back le.. 还是很想你。。
haha.. on a side note.. just seeing you 3 times when you were back made me pinn for you so much.. eventhou it's already awhile since you went back le.. 还是很想你。。
Friday, February 19, 2010
Missing him...
My ear felt itchy just now.. instintively.. i looked at the clock to chk if he's awake.. haha.. crazy..
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