No one is right or wrong, just concentrate on living the life that I want. 成为一个自己喜欢的人。 Every matters that happen Is a learning stone, will learn and grow from here.

My fave song!

疯狂世界(五月天)
如果说了后悔是不是一切就能倒退
回忆多么美活着多么狼狈
为什么这个世界总要叫人尝伤悲
我不能了解也不想了解

我好想好想飞
逃离这个疯狂世界
那么多苦那么多累
那么多莫名的泪水

我好想好想飞
逃离这个疯狂的世界
如果是你发现了我
也别将我挽回

(music)
想了你一整夜再也想不起你的脸
你是一种感觉写在夏夜晚风里面
青春是挽不回的水转眼消失在指间
用力的浪费再用力的后悔

我好想好想飞
逃离这个疯狂世界
那么多苦那么多累
那么多莫名的泪水
我好想好想飞
逃离这个疯狂的世界
如果是你发现了我
也别将我挽回
(music)

An unhappie day! 逃离是非地

好讨厌复杂与是非的生活。 向往简单，与世无争的日子。
Surround myself with love everyday. Avoid the negatives. Keep to a small Circle, dun care too much, and ignore all matters ya? Great mind discuss ideas, average, events, and small mind, people. When I enetered finexis abt 4-5 yrs ago, all I have in mind is to help pple to plan. It hurts not to have a financial plan in place. I've never though of becoming rich in this career, just earning enough, and enjoy the things I love doing. That's all.

真不明白事情为何会变成这样。。 别跟太多人走得太轻近吧。 Just concentrate on doing what I love, and loving what I do. Heard a story today that happened to a person. 惋惜吧，having a family, with kids doesn't matters. A person will just change. Nothing last forever, not even with ur partner and child's love. It doesn't matter if one is married, divorce will still happen if the heart's no longer there. Thus, I have no faith in an lawful union.

还是同样的一句话，开心就走在一起，不开心就分吧。 既来之则安之 我　爛命一條　走在路上　影子在地上 像　我的慌張　黏在腳下　抓著我不放 我不懂　我不是這樣　我不該這樣 額頭流下的汗　又流進眼眶 為什麼　要給我　一顆跳動的心臟 卻忘了　給我飛翔的翅膀 每天我活在這多無聊的地方 多麼　想要　流浪 為什麼要給我　一顆跳動的心臟 又把我　丟在這寂寞戰場 這世界有多大我就有多徬徨 有沒有一點希望　讓我去闖　天涯海角　讓我去闖 把　我的靈魂　裝進紙箱　寄送到天堂 那　雲端的光　會不會是　希望的形狀 每一天　來了又走了匆忙的太陽 感覺自己蒸發　慢慢從這個　世界上 為什麼　要給我　一顆跳動的心臟 卻忘了　給我飛翔的翅膀 每天我活在這多無聊的地方 多麼　想要　流浪 為什麼要給我　一顆跳動的心臟 又把我　丟在這寂寞戰場 這世界有多大我就有多徬徨 有沒有一點希望　讓我去闖　天涯海角　讓我去闖

We've uncovered the secrets to being that couple-you know, the been-together-forever pair who are so connected, they make the Obamas' relationship look tentative. Granted, you have to have the same values when it comes to things like kids and marriage, but there are other, more surprising factors at play. "Many couples think staying tight requires magical soul-mate status, but in reality, the trick is to establish habits that strengthen your bond, says Yvonne Thomas, Ph.D., a psychologist in Los Angeles,US. We interviewed a team of relationship experts, including Thomas, and pinpointed exactly what those habits are. From the right way to make up after a fight to how often you talk about the future, using these strategies on a regular basis will keep your love going strong forever...or for as long as you want it to. Find it hard to believe? Read on to discover the secrets that your so-in-love neighbour/best friend/sister/co-worker has internalised. The best part—your love life will be completely shock-proof after this. Other women see Ben stiller, you see Ben affleck One of the biggest secrets to long-lasting lust is also the easiest: tweaking the way you think so that you always try to see the best in your guy...and helping him to do the same. We're not suggesting that you ignore his mistakes or pretend he's being sweet when he's acting like an ass. It's more about reframing your view so you appreciate all the great things he has going for him. For example, if he's so devoted to his job that you feel like you two barely talk some nights, resist the urge to gripe. Instead, think about how much you respect his passion and ambition. If you're the one working overtime, remind him of how much he loves to brag about his ultra-accomplished girlfriend or wife. Besides squashing resentment, focussing on what draws you to each other will revive that gotta-have-younow lust you had in the beginning. "When starting to date, all couples have an idealised take on each other, which leads to intense attraction, says Thomas. "But after six months to a year, that often fades and we tend to zero in on what exactly is wrong with the other person. Fixating on faults can make you dissatisfied in the relationship. Make your union strong by always being aware of how lucky you both are. You keep your fights clean Conventional wisdom has it that partners who always (or rarely) duke it out are on thin relationship ice. But it's how you fight that matters, not how often. "Conflict is inevitable, but nasty behaviour, like finger-pointing and name-calling, shows contempt for each other, and that's sulphuric acid for love, says relationship researcher John Gottman, Ph.D., co-founder of the Gottman Institute in Seattle, US. On the flip side, if you confront problems head-on and in a way that conveys respect, you can actually get closer during a fight. "Research shows that the most successful couples use something called the soft start-up when they argue, says Gottman. Say your guy suddenly bailed on meeting you and your friends for dinner one night. Instead of blurting out "You're a total douche bag for not showing up! go with "Hey, what happened? I was upset that you cancelled like that. Or if you're the one who screwed up big, defuse his fury by saying "I can understand why you'd be mad. That cooperative, rather than combative, approach will help transform a fight into a conversation. And if one of you does fly off the handle (which is bound to happen every once in a while), do damage control as soon as possible. Make genuine repair attempts: Apologise, then laugh or touch him to cut the tension, says Gottman. These actions tell the other person that, no matter what you disagree about, you're still on the same team. You share the same badass habits Sneaking into posh hotel pools after hours, e-mailing your friends-and-family discount to everyone and their mother, calling in sick and downloading Xbox game demos all day—hey, everyone has one or two ways that they break the rules or behave badly. But the surprising news is that whether you and your guy agree on which infractions are okay—and which ones aren't—has a direct impact on the longevity of your relationship. This is especially true when it comes to seriously bad-for-you behaviours. A State University of New York at Buffalo study found that couples who mirrored each other's levels of drinking and smoking stayed close as time went by, while abstainers paired with smokers and/or drinkers eventually split. Booze and cigarettes aside, having harmless guilty pleasures in common also helps your love go the long haul. "If you can both be a little reckless in certain areas of your life—but within boundaries you each find appropriate—it can feel exciting, like you have a partner in crime, says Thomas. So go ahead and be bad together—just make sure you don't end up cuddling in the back of a police cruiser. You satisfy each other's naughty needs As you know, lots of superhot, burn-ahole-in-the-bed booty does wonders when it comes to deepening your connection. That's no problem during the first months of your relationship; your bodies are brand-new to each other, and you're always looking for reasons to be naked and horizontal. But after a while, your true bedroom personalities begin to reveal themselves...and it becomes even more crucial that you stay aware of what the other person craves. "There are two basic sexual types: thrill seekers and comfort seekers, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. Thrill seekers crave novelty; they get bored easily and are always looking for ways to amp up things. Comfort seekers, on the other hand, may like getting busy a lot and could be turned on by some out-there things, "but the routine is key, explains Kerner. "Whatever they like, they want to stick with; they don't have that drive thrill seekers have to constantly test out new scenarios. If you both happen to be the same type, keeping each other satisfied will come more naturally. But if you and your guy are opposites, it can still work—as long as you make communicating about sex a habit, says Kerner. You both pack endless surprises Uncovering new details about each other, like finding out that he starred in his seventh-grade musical or letting it slip that you can count to 20 in Japanese, triggers the release of the neurotransmitter dopamine, which leads to that isn't he/she so awesome feeling. "Partners who last aren't static, says Thomas. "They continually reveal different facets of themselves. It can be as simple as doing novel activities together, like trying Korean food or the opera just for the hell of it—even if you both hate it, you'll still learn something new about each other. You also can ask questions about your pasts or what you'd like to do in the future. "Doing so will keep that exciting first stage of a relationship—when you're slowly peeling away layers of who you both are—alive and ongoing, says Gottman. That perpetual newness is the drug that will keep you high on each other forever... and ever. So what are you waiting for? Master these moves and be a rock-steady twosome till eternity. The love ritual that keeps us tight We asked readers how they reinforce their connection (in ways that don't involve getting naked). When we first moved into our new apartment, we didn't have a table for a couple of weeks. So my boyfriend and I would put a blanket on the floor and have nightly 'picnics.' We have a table now, but we still like to set up picnics in the living room, complete with takeout sandwiches and a bottle of our favourite wine. It's sort of a reminder of how far we've come. —Felicia, 28 We live in different cities, so we've developed this thing where we will book a hotel room and have a staycation in either Baltimore, where he lives, or New York, where I live. No roommates, no family members...just me, him, and some serious quality time. —Jessica, 23 My husband and I play Iron Chef once a month. We pick a new theme each time, then create meals centred around it. The competition heats us both up and the sex rocks. —Holly, 31 Every Friday night, we get cosy in our sweats and watch all the TV shows we DVRed from that past week. It's our downtime when we really get to enjoy each other oneon-one and relax after the stresses from the week. —Michelle, 25

10 July 2012-又是他的故事

你这一辈子， 永远都会有这个女生，守着你，盼着你，爱着你，想着你，希望你天天都那么的开心，无论平穷与否，无论未来会发生什么事情，这个傻女孩，仍然，希望，有一天，能与你在一起。。 真的很对不起，每次看到你是，always find it difficult to tear my eyes off you.. I really wonder, do I really like you? But do you know, I always feel so comfortable with you, esp after telling you my feelings towards you, and being rej ted by you. Somehow, it frees me, and I can be totally myself when I am with you.  I love it, when I first saw you looking at the thickening cream, I'm so sorry that I was staring at you, and not calling you, cos that's the only way I can look at you without being obvious..  I love it when we were paying at the counter, and you were just besides me, and our faces were so close to each other.  I love it when you always so so fast, and I gotta run to catch up with you. I love it when I wear my heels, so that I can look right at you, when I tilt my head up.  I love it when you share ur exercise routine with me, and telling me that your shoulder blades hurt.  I love it that you've grown bulkier, and looks so good today.  i love it, when I'm still penning the after effects you have on me, even thou it's more than half a day since you left. Hopes  ur cakes turn out well.  你知道吗，我深深相信， 你真的是值得等的。。 我愿用我这一辈子的时间，的青春，的生命来等你。 I'll leave everything to God's hand.  Thanks God for this wonderful day. 

9 July 2012- Morning

今天是9 jul 2012. Ytd night, or rather this morning, is the first time that I dreamt of my dad since that dream.. That dream that completely changed my life, and caused me to carry my guilt for life, and/or beyond.. I dreamt that daddy was eating a meal with us, as a whole family.. I was so happie that I cried in my sleep.. semiconscious, with tears in my eyes..  Thank God, thank you so much for giving me this reunion meal.. Even thou we didn't really eat, I recall that all of us were seated in this round table, and daddy was seated on my left hand side. All of us are grown up, as per current's look, and mum looks as now. But daddy looks young, just like the looks in the photos, in that brown shirt, with the brown 喇叭裤。And with thick hair, and brown skin.. Heaven is really for real, pple do not age in heaven.  God, thanks for granting this wish to me, thank you for knowing that I always want the family to sit down tog to have a meal. Thanks for letting my unknown wish come true.. I love u..

  双子座   双子是非常向往自由的，可是内心也在崇尚着某个方向，双子很反复的内心世界在成长的日子里没人能体会。如此一来，双子就更矛盾了，在崩溃的边缘，没办法发泄，双子只能笑。双子的笑很纯净，双子笑起来也很调皮。其实双子本来就是个很简单的人，任何的心计都只弄巧成拙。   如果你觉得双子礼貌，优秀，有修养，你好，我们是泛泛之交；如果你觉得双子可爱又幽默，搞笑又谦让，嗨，我们是熟人；如果你觉得双子霸道专横，脾气坏又骄傲，恭喜你，我们是很好的朋友；如果你觉得看着双子时觉得拿双子完全没办法，谢谢你，我爱你。我们都是双子座。   双子是个爱情的执着者，不管这个世界变成怎样，他们对爱的专一永远也不会变。双子的爱很深，他们虽然不常开口，但却一直都在观察着你的一举一动，还有双子的第六感出奇的好，千万别做让他们伤心的事情，双子会记住，要爱双子，最主要的就是要能踏踏实实不能分心的给与最深的感情。双子的爱，谁明白？   双子座对自己所爱的人，的确是非常体贴照顾，也非常容易受伤的。但是，跟谁是玩玩就算跟谁是认认真真，双子座可是分得很清楚的。双子座的自愈能力其实很强，其他星座的人不要以为离开双子座你就在ta的心上刻下一道伤疤然后让ta永远对你念念不忘了，除非你真的是ta爱的人。   当双子爱上一个人的时候，她会把你的每一句话都当真，即使你无意说的话，她都会认为你是认真的，因为和双子很在乎另一半给予的爱，或许她会在你面前微笑不让你担心，但她会自己一个人默默的给伤口上药。  

双子座不为人知的天性

双子座——黄道宫上的第三个星座，是第一个风相星座。受水星守护，思维敏捷，有良好的沟通能力，反应迅速，适应力强。双子座的人追求并享受生动、多姿多彩、富于变化的生活环境，平淡、一成不变的环境难以引起他们的兴趣。因为他们有很强的交际能力，所以身边不缺朋友，风趣机智的表现也常受周围人的欢迎。 灵活多变的双子座 双子座具有双重性格，多变是他们最突出的特质。他们有着典型的都市潮人气质，喜欢快节奏的生活，把每一天都安排得满满当当，让各种活动、游玩、工作都能快乐地参与，乐在其中，并能把快乐和最新资讯带给周围的人。他们活泼、热情、浪漫、想象力丰富，接受并适应新事物的能力很强，是人群中的活跃份子。灵活的头脑也让他们能够在繁杂琐碎的工作生活中游刃有余，快乐自在。 口齿伶俐的双子座 双子座以能言善道著称，擅于沟通，具有幽默感，爱说爱笑，活泼好动，有他们在的地方就不会沉静。他们喜欢八卦，喜欢凑热闹，但他们也是最新资讯、怪谈趣谈的传播者，常常语出惊人，超强的口才令人折服。他们可以运用自己的三寸不烂之舌，将一件再平常不过的事情，描述成生动感人的故事。这也是因为他们害怕寂寞孤独，一静下来就会觉得无聊，所以，会不停地表达，从说话、众人的倾听及惊奇表情中获得快乐与满足。 以变制变的双子座 双子座善变，“变”是他们的永恒追求，越是变动的环境越能激起他们的挑战神经，如此才够刺激，令他们感到兴奋，做起事来也更加风风火火。追求变化、有创意才是他们的行事风格，为了达到效果，不惜夸大其辞。不过，有时显得浮夸，计划变来变去没有定性，难免虎头蛇尾，给人留下“吹牛大王”的印象。求新求变固然好，但耐性与定性也需要加强，培养静心的功夫，更理性、专心一些。 精力充沛的双子座 双子座似乎有使不完的劲，哪里热闹哪里就有他们的身影，凭借惊人的口才活络于社交圈中，给人活力四射的印象。热闹的气氛会让他们变得兴奋异常，能融入群体中，把自己的想法表达出来，让大家都围着自己转，并以此彰显才华横溢。只要在人群中就能让他们精神抖擞，活力会源源不断地从他们身上蹦出来。一旦没有了周围人的捧场，需要一个人呆着时，他们就会变得疲惫不堪，甚至烦躁不安、情绪沮丧。 好奇求新的双子座 双子座思维活跃，学习力强，对新奇的事物兴趣浓厚。他们喜欢改变环境或是接触不同的人来释放压力，或是想要在不同的方面表现自己。在好奇心的驱使下，他们对新知有着强烈的求知欲，接受力强，因此储备了满腹的谈资，让他们颇有优越感，与人交流总是眉飞色舞。不过，也因为兴趣广泛，性情多变，常常半途而废；或者满脑子的新奇想法，让他们难以选择，弄得不知所措，左右为难