Have I been in a r/s before?

Hl asked me this Qn ytd..
Have I?
Technically, yes, i had been in some r/s before..
but then, it was still a smack on my face when he asked me this Qn..

n suddenly i realised that i've never been in an actual healthy r/s.
I've never told pple about those r/s, never had intention for those r/s to last long. Its more of out of curiosity, out of need for companionship.. Out of fun, they were not meant to last, it's more of a fling. Young, and was seeking companionship.
The guy before Willy
Willy
Jie hui
The guy who lives at Katib
N e guy after him..

n Now, I'm facing 30.. Omg..